When it comes to giving satisfaction to women, most men erroneously feel that an "off the roof" sexual experience and sporadic gifts now and then are enough to buy the hearts of women. They figure, if I can take her out occasionally, say some sweet words only when I'm in the mood for sex, then she'll be mine forever. While many schools of thought exist in this area, many false assumptions also exist. It becomes necessary then to sift through a mountain of truths, half-truths, untruths, inconsistencies and facts in order to arrive at what works and what doesn't. While you and I of course have ideas about what generally brings affection from people, the peculiarities of the female psyche demand somewhat more consideration.

In any relationship, the most important faculty of the woman is her emotions. Any successful wooing starts from and ends in a woman's emotions. Find something that greatly stirs her emotions, then you find her. Many women have been known to continue with partners who provided them with much needed emotional solace and release even when faced with dire financial problems. It is so important to remain in a woman's emotional good books. No where in nature is the saying "a soft tongue breaks the bone" as important as in women folk. Even though the majority of women folk would gladly date and even marry men of fame and affluence, once they discover that their psycho-emotional need are not being met, the relationship is doomed. While of course emotional connection and affection is not the all in all package women desire, it is nevertheless highly significant so much so that as a woman gets older, her need for constant affection and reaffirmation from her partner increases tremendously.

Next to this is physical attention. A man needs to pay serious attention to this. Women are very dress, class and fashion conscious. If you're used to taking walks on the street, you'll probably observe most women observing other women and not men. Most women's sense of esteem is deeply tied to their looks. If they feel they fall short in physical beauty, they try to make up by wearing expensive clothes, make ups, perfumes and jewelleries as for a man desiring a wonderful bedroom life, the rule is always aim to satisfy the things she is physically attracted to and you are on your way to her heart. If for some reason or the other you notice a lull in your bedroom life as a man, you need to ask yourself if there is any thing your partner desires that you have not provided. That can really cause a snag in your bedroom life. Many women have been known to make demands from their partners right there during sex. You can imagine how "pleasant" such an occurrence would seem.

No. 3 of course is social attention. A common cause of, break-ups today is boredom, lack of passion, lack of adventure. Just pitch black monotony. It is mildly surprising to note that complaints about monotony, boredom and a blas?nion are more common with women than with men. Men have a lot of outlets to fuel their social needs. Golf games, foot ball outings and a host of other things, women on the other hand have fewer opportunities for social interaction apart from the workplace. It thus becomes increasingly relevant, for the male partner to provide avenues where his partner can find social interaction in order to provide for a healthy relationship to continue. If your woman feels caged, bored and jaded with life, make no mistakes about it, but your bedroom life and your entire union would be on a course heading for the rocks.